Good morning everyone.
Today I am starting this discussion about "Growing up", which is clearly expressed in the header of this post.
I start this discussion because I am unsure of alot of things in life, however each time, where I actually am sure of what I want to do, I am hold back by my parents and their "Your are not thinking clearly"-speech.
Maybe this require a bit more basic information about me to actually make sence.
Well some of you may know me already, but I am a 19 Year old guy living in north-west region of Denmark (EU).
For the last few months I have been planing to move, once I start at university after the summer. Good ide right? Well not if you ask my parents.
Each time I bring up the topic, where I say I wish to move, they always say things as following:
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So I am kind of in a dilemma, I don't know what I should do, my options is;
1. Stay home, get up each day at 4am, spent 6 hours on bus transport each day and always be late for morning lectures.
2. Move out, get up each day at 7am, spent 30 minutes on bike transport each day, and always be there for morning lessons.
For the second option, I however have to take a loan to pay the apartment deposit, which I plan to be able to pay off in a 2 or 3 year period, Which means it is paid once i finish my bachlor degree at university.
I would like to get some opinions and maybe some suggestions for what I should do?
Honestly I would like to do the second option, however how do I convice my parents to let me move?
Today I am starting this discussion about "Growing up", which is clearly expressed in the header of this post.
I start this discussion because I am unsure of alot of things in life, however each time, where I actually am sure of what I want to do, I am hold back by my parents and their "Your are not thinking clearly"-speech.
Maybe this require a bit more basic information about me to actually make sence.
Well some of you may know me already, but I am a 19 Year old guy living in north-west region of Denmark (EU).
For the last few months I have been planing to move, once I start at university after the summer. Good ide right? Well not if you ask my parents.
Each time I bring up the topic, where I say I wish to move, they always say things as following:
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(Well here things to notice is, I have to get up at 4 am, then take a bike 24km to the busstation, for then to take 3 hours in bus, Which I then will be at the university at 9am, which is 1 hour to late for my first lessons).It is stupid for you to move since it only take 3 hours with bus from here to the university.
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(My parents got the idea to think I base my decisions and actions, because a friend of mine is doing the same, the issue on this part is the fact that my friend is a girl, which they think I have a crush on)You only want to move because your friend is moving.
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(My parents believe, if I move out I will make the same mistakes as my father did. My father in this cased lived in the capital of Denmark, which is a much more expencive place to live, Even though I have to take a loan to afford the deposit of the apartment, I can in my case pay it in full within 2 to 3 years, where my father got stuck with the debt for 15 years, because he didn't want to complet his university studies).Don't make the same mistakes as your father.
So I am kind of in a dilemma, I don't know what I should do, my options is;
1. Stay home, get up each day at 4am, spent 6 hours on bus transport each day and always be late for morning lectures.
2. Move out, get up each day at 7am, spent 30 minutes on bike transport each day, and always be there for morning lessons.
For the second option, I however have to take a loan to pay the apartment deposit, which I plan to be able to pay off in a 2 or 3 year period, Which means it is paid once i finish my bachlor degree at university.
I would like to get some opinions and maybe some suggestions for what I should do?
Honestly I would like to do the second option, however how do I convice my parents to let me move?